DEDICATING THIS TO ALL BABY BUTTERFLIES WHO ARE THRASHED BY THEIR PARENTS IN THE NAME OF DIVORCE…..
Yes when i am about to step into some alliances, really worried about its practicality as am too a youth living in this rotten society….Don’t know what is the chemistry of marriage?obviously it is not love at first sight or physical appearences….Then the lot goes to love, understanding,compromising,compassion,wisdom…….But my question is ..Are years not necessary enough to build up the factors that we are listed? Then why people are quing up in family courts after 25 or 35 years of marriage? So tell me what is the reality in these dramas often staged with a ritual bonding?
If it is a love marriage ,you boast that you know each other , you were ready for crusades for each one’s happiness ….and we often see your status updates.”.love to reality”…”.fulfillment of our dreams”…..But after marriage what is happening guys? Very sorry to say that ….We feel lust in it more than love……..And the Arranged Dramas….The phone -in- sessions ………… The cookery shows.. The change of profile pics ,new snap shots ….The months before marriage are truly hectic…..But after marriage…why you are advising your bachelor friend to have maximum fun in those days?
And after having a kid a usual u turn to extra marital affairs…….Elopement, Divorce petitions, Killings…..for the new love…….After that the same routine……Again the question is where you are loosing yourself? is it good to blame the technology for your faults….then who and what…is it the usual culprit the society?……who ever or what ever..its high time to find the cause……
Is marriage a licence to have an extra marital life?when’ the west is moving to east, the east is moving to west’……..Don’t take it as a sign of development…we are deteriorating……Its high time to apply the knowledge of primary social science…..’.family is the basic unit of society’…..The fire you had at the time of crush,do your maximum to make it alive till your last breath…..The new life you have plunged in to the earth ,at least you are responsible for that……Think about your childhood, you child too have the right for that,think a minute we did you feel when your parents might deviate into a new affair….why did you rushed into bathrooms even for their silly fights? your kids are experiencing the same…….Don’t stretch them through agonies…….Hold their hands in the way your father had once hold you……Return all those kisses to them ,that once you have received in your child hood………That’s your life..That’s make you a complete man or women…….Dont waste your life for manipulated freedom or pretended love……….Love is divine……Life is its ultimate reality……Marriage is the bond that unites the both…
